On Finding A Wife

 As I stated in the last post, one of the most important things to do is find a wife so you can have White babies. You probably have some idea on what you can do to gain power, influence and resources to aid our cause, and are no doubt already working to make yourself fit and ready to defend the White race. But most men are completely lost when it comes to women.

While there's tons of material out there giving out dating advice, I'm going to give you a few key pointers about dating and how relationships work. However, when it comes to actual married life I can't help you, as I've never been married myself.

The idea here is to provide a foundation for a framework which you can build on. I want to give you enough information for you to go out and start as soon as you're done reading this article, but not too much that you get impatient reading it. 

Rule 1: Just ask.

If you see a pretty girl, just go up to her and say so to her face. If you're just walking around outdoors, engage her in conversation. If you're in a slightly more inconvenient setting, tell her you'd like to get to know her later on, and ask for her number. The worst she can say is no. Make a game out of it- you get a point for every rejection you get. Play to see how many points you can get. 

The key is that you set the tone of the interaction to "flirtatious." If you don't express interest, she can be put off, or she'll put you in the "friend" category. That's why you open with "hey, I just thought you looked really cute," or something a bit more clever, if you can think it up on the fly. However, what you say matters a lot less than how you say it. 

Once you've introduced yourself, just get to know her. There are no code words or catch phrases you need to use, just follow some general rules:

1.) Don't be self-deprecating unless you're actually confident about whatever it is you're making fun of. If you're a good writer (like me, not to brag) writing is okay to make fun of yourself about. Don't make fun of yourself for things you're insecure about. Women can tell the difference. However...

2.) Don't denigrate your passions. If you don't like what you do, whether it be work or school, don't tell her how much you hate it. To go back to my example, while you can make fun of the quality of your writing, don't fail to mention how much you love doing it. Talk about your plans and ambitions with writing. Tell her why you love it so much. Don't tell her your life is boring, or that it sucks because of how many words you have to write. Your passion doesn't have to be your job, either. If your job sucks, tell her about what you're really trying to do with your life. If you don't have anything, you have bigger problems to worry about than finding a wife. (Important note: video games don't count, unless you help make them.)

3.) Once you get her contact info, try not to get bogged down in online conversation. Texting/Snap/Insta should primarily be for logistics. No girl's heart was ever won outside of a face-to-face interaction. 

4.) Don't apologize too much. Be confident and mean what you say to her. 

5.) Tease her and make fun of her. She should be the butt of the joke more often than you. There's no hard and fast limit of what's too far. Women actually tend to like it when you're mean to them. 

All of this is generally for your first interaction, before you actually go on a date. Once on the date, here are some more things for you to consider:

1.) Don't take her out to dinner before date number 3, and don't take her to a movie before date number 2. That's not a hard and fast rule, it's just meant to drive home a point: think of creative date ideas, preferably ones that are active and exciting. Roller skating, laser tag, arcade, Topgolf, or skiing are all activities that both get the blood pumping and offer time for conversation. Adrenaline is closely linked with attraction. You want her to associate those feelings with you.

2.) Focus on yourself, and lead the way. Don't spend the entire date asking "So what do you wanna do next?" Don't even give her two options to pick from. You choose what to do, and when to do it. When I remembered to do this on a date I went on a while ago, it was like flipping a light switch. Instantly, I was having more fun and my date didn't mind at all. That's because women aren't there for the drinks and dancing- they can do that with their friends. They're there for you. They want you to take the lead. Women are extremely sensitive to your mood. If you're having fun, it will catch on. Leave them to brighten things up, and they're at a complete loss.

3.) Don't be afraid to escalate. Another lesson I learned from the date I just mentioned. Don't be afraid to put a hand on her waist, or to hold her hand. Don't be afraid to kiss her, and don't be afraid to tell her that you want to kiss her. Case in point- I was making strong eye contact at her from across a table, and she asked me "what?" Immediately I got awkward, I looked away, I thought of some excuse. I told her I was practicing making eye contact. Real smooth.

What I should have said is "I just wanna kiss you right now." After all, I already knew she thought I was cute, and most importantly, she was on a date with me. But I was out of practice, and I didn't recover. I hugged her goodbye, and never saw her again. Always escalate at a level appropriate to the environment. You can get away with a lot more at a night club then at an arcade, keeping in mind that anything farther than making out before marriage is against God's word. (And who goes to a night club to find quality women anyways?)

That's all the most important advice I have for interacting with women. However, what if you've memorized this entire article so far and you're still seeing no success? What if you're just a total incel?

Well first off, the only true incels are cripples and retards, and even that's debatable. Any able-bodied man who can at least pretend to function like a normal human being has a chance with women. If your looks are standing in the way of your personality, you must do these four things. Unlike everything I've stated before, these are hard and fast rules that apply at all times.

1.) Shave/trim your neck and face. Unkempt facial hair looks smelly.

2.) Buy a decent haircut. Do some basic research online on what hairstyle suits your head shape, or just look through a hairstylist magazine for men, and find something that looks good. Whatever it is, it must be short. Unless you are a rock star, in which case you don't need this article. 

3.) Buy decent clothes. Unlike all other dating advice, women can help you pick out clothes to talk to women. Preferably it should be a woman from your generation. If you have no female friends, again, basic internet research on what looks good. 

4.) Go to the gym. The most important exercises are benches, squats, bicep curls, sit-ups, and push-ups. It goes without saying, but count your calories. Weight loss is a simple addition/subtraction problem. If you lose more calories than you gain, you will get smaller. That's simple thermodynamics. It doesn't even matter what you eat, as long as you're getting all your nutrients and plenty of water. For weight gain on the other hand, you will want to eat stuff with lots of protein to stimulate muscle growth. And remember- it is impossible to shed fat while gaining muscle. Focus on one or the other.

Hopefully all this will get you through the first stages of wooing a lady. The next step is simply to run outside into a crowded area, stroll around, and just talk to the next cute girl you see. For further research, I strongly recommend Avery G. Hayden's YouTube channel where he breaks down approach and provides excellent examples of what good and bad approach look like. Keep in mind however, that he is not a Christian. 

Now you might be thinking "what advice does he have for the girls who want to find White husbands?"

Dating advice for girls?

I have to laugh.

Women don't have to try to get guys. Evolution has drilled it into our heads- guys want girls more than girls want guys, so the only advice I have is don't have premarital sex and don't marry a non-White guy. Obey your husband, follow Christ, and don't be an e-girl. The only real problem I can imagine you facing is actually finding someone red pilled. If you really care about being a housewife and a pro-White, you might have to give a chance to guys that you're less interested in. While attractive people tend to be more conservative, that isn't always true of the pro-White crowd. I knew one other truly red pilled guy in high school, and he's not what I would call "a chad." 

Anyhow, good luck to all of you and God bless!